I realized something, I over came a lot just to be in this relationship. I worked on my insecurity issues (still am), learned to be mindful of the other person, Learned to love unilaterally, I can tickle backs, rub feet, start baths, do laundry, wash dishes, feed the dogs, change her oil, pay the bills, take her out to dinner, make her laugh, make her smile, start her day of right, help her choose what clothes to get dressed in, pick her shoes, remember her lunch, oopppss and your phone, I’ll carry your purse to the car, remember to text her when she gets to work about her drive, crap I forgot my lunch.